Day 14: Gentleness

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I'm still smack dab in the middle of a hectic week, so I'm choosing the fruit of the spirit of gentleness to focus on today and I certainly don't need to reinvent the wheel there. Phenomenal authors have written on the importance of gentleness in parenting, including most obviously L.R. Knost who wrote "The Gentle Parent." It's a book full of great paradigm shifts and practical suggestions - I'm going to commit to opening it up today or perusing her website (www.littlehearts.com) and putting one of those suggestions into practice.

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